I belong to an online forum for women fighting/surviving breast cancer. Here are some great quotes from my online sisters. The secret to happy life is revealed by SueM44 from Melbourne: "Happiness is not something anyone else can give us... or take away from us. Happiness is what we make of our lives... or don't. Whatever our circumstances, we can create a joyful life... or a miserable life. It is up to us." and also from SueM44 A wise friend told me "All I need to know I learnt in kindergarten. Share. Play fair. Don't lie. Say you’re sorry. Clean up your own mess. Hold hands and stick together." The secret to a happy life is revealed by Erin Thompson of Adelaie: "I choose to be happy. When the bad stuff hits I look around until I find something good to replace it - a smile, or laugh, a sunrise or sunset, anything that makes you feel good." and also from Erin: The secret to a happy life is revealed by Erin's good friend Adriana "Love many, trust a few, always ride your own canoe" The secret to a happy life is revealed by Roslyn from Lithgow: "Dont dwell on the bad, just think of the good and plenty of Love, Laughter, Lust and the Little things." The secret to a happy life is revealed by Jane from Brisbane: "Don't try to control everything - sometimes it's best to just go with the flow." The secret to a happy life is revealed by Christine of Perth: "If you are a creator, be it with paints, with wool, with clay, with cloth, with charcoal, or whatever you create with, do it because you love it, and not with any thoughts of profit or gain. They are just a bonus. For when you get lost in what you love to do, sometimes that is when the real masterpieces and rewards emerge." The secret to a happy life is revealed by Jetj from Sydney I'm telling me after a pig session today. "Eat to live, not live to eat".