The secret to a happy life is revealed by John (41) of Bayswater, Perth WA: "There is no excuse for being a moody, miserable sod. Who is responsible for creating that person? You are! You choose how you react to your experiences, and if you choose to be the victim then you will never be happy. Crap stuff happens to people every day, and it is how you choose to deal with it that will determine if you live your life unhappy or happy. So choose to take charge of your situation and begin the road to happiness."