The secret to a happy life is revealed by Mitch (44) of Auckland, NZ: "To be happy you can't blame other people for your unhappiness. If other people make you feel unhappy then don't hang out with those people, or work for them, or be in their team, or whatever. And if those people, for whatever reason, have to be in your life (like your family!!) then find strategies to deal with them. Be proactive in your path to happiness."