The secret to a happy life is revealed by Bill from Sussex, UK: Dont hang on to stuff that makes you uneasy, frustrated, or miserable. Get rid of the objects, people, job or whatever it is that causes you unrest and puts you in the doldrums. We hang onto these things and people because we hang onto 'the familiar' things in our lives, but if they dont push our happiness buttons toss them aside and start from scratch. Its a scary prospect for most of us, but it will wipe the slate clean and enable you to choose things and people that enrich you rather than ditch you.